Pregnancy at 20, 30 or 40: there is no good age to become parents
On the occasion of the fifth Parents debate on the theme “Pregnancy at 20, 30 or 40: is there a good age to become parents? We asked moms on our forums if they think there is an ideal age to have a baby. Their answer: no!
“At 20, it’s too young, at 30, it’s not the time because you’re starting out in professional life, at 40, it’s too late … In fact, there is never a good moment in life, there is only THE moment when we feel it, when we want it. So, for some it is very young (me, since the age of 15, I wanted children, and I knew that I wanted them early), for others it is later. It doesn’t really matter! The only concern is our biological clock because sometimes, by dint of waiting, it is too late. ” Savali 511
“I would have liked to be a mother at 24 but the situation did not allow it. Monsieur was not ready. Personally, I think there is no ideal age. It is according to the history of each and the hormones that titillate. And if we can have healthy children later, so much the better! We live longer, we stay in shape longer too. ” Kitty 2012
“I don’t think there is an age to become a mother. I don’t believe in “being ready” either. How do you go about being ready for the unknown of pregnancy and child? We want to, but we can’t be “ready” because we don’t know in advance how everything is going to turn out. I was lucky enough to be able to observe two “extremes”: my mom had my little brother at 38 and my little sister had her first daughter at 15 (she is 20 now and is expecting her second child in September) . One had to “get younger” and the other had to “grow old”. My sister is hardened, my mother is softened… I admire them both (…). And after all, age is just a number! We do not care. ” Gigitte13
Auai i le felafolafoaiga lona lima a Matua! I le Aso Lua Me 3, i Pale, o le lomiga lona lima o le " Fefinauaiga a matua “Faatasi ai ma le autu:” Maitaga i le 20, 30 poʻo le 40: o iai se matua lelei e avea ai ma matua? “. Ina ia talanoaina lenei mataupu ma oe, ua matou valaauliaina: Catherine Bergeret-Amselek, psychoanalyst, and Polofesa Michel Tournaire, obstetrician-gynecologist ma sa avea muamua ma sui o le falemaʻi tina Saint-Vincent de Paul i Pale. Astrid Veillon, lo tatou tina atua lototoa, e mautinoa lava o le a fai mai lana tala. Afai e te manaʻo e auai i lenei fonotaga, resitala ile kiliki iinei: www.debats-parents.fr/inscription |