O ai e mana'o, o lo'o su'e avanoa. O ai e le mana'o, e saili 'alofaga

The most purposeful person is the one who really wants to go to the toilet: all obstacles seem insignificant, everything is insignificant for him, except for the goal. Agree, it’s funny to hear phrases like: “I peed myself because I didn’t have time to go to the toilet; because I was too tired; because I lost hope and no longer believed that I could run!”

And also “Well, of course, he ran, but his legs are so long!”; “This is clearly not for me”, “I knocked on the toilet, but they didn’t open it!”, “I didn’t have enough motivation” or “I decided to do it tomorrow …”.

​​​​​​​All of these are phrases from the vocabulary of the Victim. Attention, the question is: are these your phrases? Do they help you achieve your goals?

People often make elections in which they do not want to admit to themselves, and in order of psychological defense cover them with far -fetched, false excuses.

“I was late because I wanted to get more sleep. Well, I really wanted to sleep!” — with the subtext “I wanted to sleep so much that I had no strength to resist. It was objectively impossible.»

People make excuses for themselves — easy. It is easy to call your laziness to collect yourself and move forward an age crisis, it is easy to formulate your fear of building new relationships to yourself (and others) by the self-sufficiency of your nature, to justify intemperance by your character, and to explain your bad manners with your emotionality …