Mataupu
- 1. Fa'asalalau mea uma tou te faia fa'atasi i luga o le initaneti.
- 2. O oe po'o lau paaga e le tu'ua le telefoni
- 3. Mana'o lau paga e fa'apipi'i ata o oulua fa'atasi
- 4. Tusi ni mea se tele e uiga i mafutaga.
- 5. Fa'aaoga soo hashtags ma fa'aupuga
- 6. Le fiafia i le mea moni e le o fesoʻotaʻi le paaga ma oe i luga ole Upega
- 7. Aua le tapeina ata o lou tagata muamua
- 8. Le fiafia faalilolilo i pou ma faʻamatalaga a lau paga
Social networks not only bring us closer, but also test relationships for strength. Facebook and Instagram are full of traps. How to behave so as not to fall into them?
“Why didn’t you like me?” Elena asks Anatoly offendedly. “Lenok, I didn’t even go to Facebook today!” “Not true, I saw you on the Web!” The new reality not only provides new opportunities, but also creates new problems.
Matou te faʻatusatusa la matou mafutaga ma mafutaga a isi ulugalii i luga o fesoʻotaʻiga lautele. Pe sili atu ea lo latou faimalaga nai lo i tatou? E tele atu fusi i le ata nai lo tatou? O le tauvaga faʻapitoa e le gata ina tausia ai i tatou i foliga lelei, ae faʻaleagaina ai foi le lotogatasi i le paga. O le a le mea o loʻo e faia sese ma o le a le mea e manaʻomia ona suia e faʻasaoina ai le filemu ma le alofa?
1. Fa'asalalau mea uma tou te faia fa'atasi i luga o le initaneti.
E ala i le faʻaalia o le ata i tagata lautele, matou te liliu le taimi "naʻo le lua" i le lautele lautele. Fa'agalo le telefoni, tu'u le au fai saofaga e aunoa ma se pou fou. Taulai atu i lau paga, faaalu se taimi ma na o oulua.
2. O oe po'o lau paaga e le tu'ua le telefoni
E te le lafoaia lau telefonipoto. Siaki pea lau meli, sosoo ai ma le upega. E faia e lau paaga le mea lava e tasi? Pe na o le nofonofo lava o ia ma faatali seia e fiu e fai ni faamatalaga i au uo? E masani lava ona ia lagona le lē aogā. Na'o le tu'u ese o lau telefoni ma fiafia i se afiafi mo le lua. Ma e iai lava le taimi mo fa'asalalauga fa'aagafesootai.
3. Mana'o lau paga e fa'apipi'i ata o oulua fa'atasi
Atonu e faateia ma le fiafia ona e le o maua e lau paaga au ata faʻatasi i luga o le itulau. Na te le tusia lava e uiga ia te oe, e peiseai o loo saoloto pea. Faatali se'i tiga. Masalo o le paaga e le fiafia i fesoʻotaʻiga lautele pe talitonu o le olaga patino e tatau ona tumau pea. O le auala pito sili ona faigofie e aveese ai masalosaloga o le talanoa saʻo atu ia te ia.
4. Tusi ni mea se tele e uiga i mafutaga.
Endless messages and “stories” all day long are a bad form. Even if all your subscribers are happy for you, sooner or later they will get tired of squandering sugary-sweet posts. Stop clogging other people’s “tapes”, leave a corner in your life that will remain inaccessible to prying eyes.
Le manaʻomia le tuʻuina o le tele o hashtags e talanoa e uiga i lou fiafia e le gata. A uma le lona fa, e leai se tasi e gauai atu ia i latou. E faapena foi i saini. O nisi taimi e sili atu le itiiti.
6. Le fiafia i le mea moni e le o fesoʻotaʻi le paaga ma oe i luga ole Upega
The partner does not leave you supportive comments, does not “like” photos, and does not communicate with you through Instagram. Does it upset you? Talk to him frankly, find out what prevents him from communicating with you on social networks. Explain that attention is pleasant not only in private, but also in public.
7. Aua le tapeina ata o lou tagata muamua
Aua ne'i lafo ni ata o oe ma lou tagata muamua. E foliga mai e le fiafia mo se paaga fou le vaai ia i latou. E tusa lava pe e te le mafaufau e uiga i "soʻo se mea faapena", e mafai e se pele ona malamalama ia te oe i se auala e matua ese lava. Ma o le tele o taimi, o ia ata e mafai ona avea ma faʻailoga e te leʻi tuʻuina atu le alofa tuai.
8. Le fiafia faalilolilo i pou ma faʻamatalaga a lau paga
O e ita i se fa'amatalaga a se paaga po'o lana fa'amatalaga mai se uo? E te ita ae lemu? E sili le talanoa sa'o i mea e te le fiafia i ai. Atonu na lafo e le paaga le ata sese pe faatiga ia te oe e ala i le faatusatusa i se tasi. Aua le taofiofia ou lagona. O talanoaga faamaoni o le auala sili lea e foia ai faafitauli.