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In order to advance in your work on yourself, it is not enough to be dissatisfied with what you have now, it is important to have a good idea of where you want to move, to decide on the direction. If you are not completely satisfied with yourself, if you want to change yourself, it only means that you have the energy of development, that you are ready to move. But where? — the question is open. “The cooler the jeep, the further you go after the tractor” — if you don’t understand what you need to do with yourself, if your movement is chaotic or just not there, then all your efforts are in vain.
Ata faʻatusa:
Sergey is tense and withdrawn, he doesn’t let anyone near him, he doesn’t go into conversation, he gets off with jokes. Soon, however, it turns out: he is a fan of Castaneda, follows the path of a warrior, learns loneliness and even better to close himself …
Do you wish success?
Lida — every week comes with new ideas. Suddenly she realizes that she urgently needs to take up the art of ikebana, soon she has a new hobby — belly dancing, then English, and in general there is nothing better than rafting on mountain rivers. Result? Years go by and she has nothing.
No, because there is no way, because the goals are not defined.
If a person has set a goal for himself, this does not mean at all that his goal is reasonable, adequate and correct.
Somehow a young man came to me at a distance, outlining his task: “I want to rot harmoniously. I’m slowly rotting anyway, but it happens to me somehow ugly, inharmoniously. Can you help?» — When I was convinced that the request was serious, that they were not playing me, I seriously thought about the fact that people are much more creative than I thought …
What should you do to determine the direction of your development correctly? It is best to talk about this with smart people: it can be your loved ones, your friends, it can be a psychologist-coach. From the books we recommend: N.I. Kozlov «Simple Right Life», exercise Wheel of Life.
Usually it turns out to be important to set and solve three tasks: to find your own business, find your person and educate yourself.
Fa'atulaga sini mo le fa'aleleia atili o le tagata lava ia
Once you have identified priority areas, set specific goals. We warn you — this is not an easy task. How to do it correctly, see→