In a world where the ability to walk over heads and actively work with elbows is valued above all, sensitivity seems at least an inappropriate feature, at a maximum — a sign of weakness. American journalist Matthew Loeb is sure that sensitivity can be considered your dignity.
«You are too sensitive!» ua tagi le tamā.
«Stop taking everything so personally» Ua muimui le alii sili.
«Stop being a rag!» ua ita le faiaoga.
E tiga le tagata maaleale pe a faalogo i nei mea uma. E te lagona e pei e te le o malamalama. E faitio aiga e te manaʻomia pea le lagolago faʻalagona. E fa'atauva'a oe e au faigaluega i le galuega. I le aʻoga, na sauaina oe o se tagata vaivai.
E sese uma lava.
Ua tatou ola i se lalolagi lea e masani ona manumalo ai omiga ma le talitonu o le tagata ia te ia lava nai lo mafaufauga ma mafaufauga.
Ua tatou ola i se lalolagi lea e masani ona manumalo ai omiga ma le talitonu o le tagata ia te ia lava nai lo mafaufauga ma mafaufauga. Ua lava e toe manatua le ala na avea ai Donald Trump ma sui tauva a le Republican Party. Pe va'ai fo'i i so'o se pule sili i ni faiga fa'apulepule, fa'amata'u leotele e uiga i le si'itia o tupe mama.
Life is a contact sport, or at least that’s what «wise teachers» often say. In order to get forward, you have to push everyone with your elbows.
Lesson learned. Deciding to be «tougher», you walk past your acquaintances in the office with a stony face, giving them stern looks, rudely brushing off anyone who distracts you. As a result, you do not look «tough», but just an arrogant rude.
O le lagona maaleale o se meaalofa e talisapaia e au uo ma aiga
O le lesona lenei e aʻoaʻoina: Aua e te taumafai e taofiofia lou itu maaleale—taumafai e talia. O le maaleale o se meaalofa e talisapaia e au uo ma aiga, e tusa lava pe o lou mana'o e foliga faigata ma ogaoga e taofia ai i latou mai le fa'aalia manino.
Ma'ale'ale fa'alagona
Pe ua e mātauina le taumafai filemu ma le musuā o se tasi e faaauau le talanoaga? Ioe sa latou faia. O lou maaleale e mafai ai ona e iloa tonu le tulaga o lagona o isi. E le amanaiaina e tagata uma lenei tagata matamuli, ma e te sau i luga ma faamasani le tasi i le isi. O lou sa'o ma lou fa'amaoni e fa'afiafiaina ma fa'ate'aina, o lea e sili ai ona lelei le talanoa fa'atasi ma oe. E talitonuina oe e tagata. O lea e mulimuli mai ai…
… o oe o se foma'i mafaufau na fanau mai
Your inner world is deep and developed. You are naturally empathetic, and friends and family will always turn to you when they need support. How many times has it happened that as soon as something happens — and they immediately call you? Mo i latou, ua pei oe o se faailoilo tau faalogona.
Valaʻau uo ma aiga "mo ni nai minute, e suʻe pe o a mai oe", a maeʻa le lua itula e masani ona e faʻaauau pea le talanoaga, fesoasoani e "faʻapipiʻi" se loto nutimomoia. Ioe, ua e sauni e tuʻuina atu lou taimi e fesoasoani ai i aiga ma uo o loʻo i ai se "tiga loto". Ma o le mea e sili ona taua, o loʻo e matua faʻalagona e malamalama moni ai i o latou aafiaga.
Saili ma saili
E iai lou mafaufau su'esu'e. E masani lava lou fia iloa. O lo'o e fai pea fesili, aoina mai fa'amatalaga, taumafai e fa'amalie le fia inu o lou fai'ai. E te mitiia faamatalaga e pei o se omomi.
I le taimi lava e tasi, e sili ona e fiafia i tagata: o latou uiga, o le a le mea e faʻaosofia ai i latou, o le a le mea latou te fefefe ai, o le a le ituaiga "auivi latou te maua i totonu o le kapoti".
With your sensitive soul, you have a lot to give to others — even cynics who are tired of everything. Your warm attitude, good nature, understanding and intellectual curiosity inspire those around you. And by this e te fa'aitiitia teisi le saua o le olaga i ou tafatafa.
E ui o le olaga e masani ona pei o se taʻaloga faʻafesoʻotaʻi, o nisi taimi e mafai ona e faia e aunoa ma se pusa puipui.