E te manatu e te le pei o isi tagata uma, e leai ni au uo ma ua sili atu ma le tasi e taʻu atu ia te oe e te uiga ese? Faamata o se faailoga lea o se faaletonu o le mafaufau? Ekaterina Mikhailova, o se fomaʻi maʻi mafaufau ma tagata tomai faapitoa o le tusi talaaga Psychologies, tali.
Ekaterina Mikhailova
O lea la, pele Anonymous: or you have a plainly unspoken question, or you can not read further. Every letter is somewhat similar to the author, and yours too: thoughts jump, then one thing is remembered, then another … It seems scary that some is not like that, there are no friends, you don’t like your parents, you don’t work, but you go — I want new tests, and certainly “about personality”. And all for the sake of answering the question “Am I crazy”?
Ioe e leai. O lo'o e fesili mai mo se isi mea: ta'u mai po o ai a'u, aua o a'u lava e le o malamalama i lenei mea. E tupu lenei mea i le 16-17 tausaga, ae e 24. Ma e foliga mai, e te ola e pei o se talavou ...
E manaia le suʻeina o mea e mafai ona e faia lelei, o a tomai e leʻi atiaʻe i lena vevesi tautala lea e te malemo ai le faʻailo.
And I’ll tell you this: you are not a «crazy», but just a very, very neglected person, tuuatoatasi, le mautonu, ma le gaogaosa i lo'u ulu. Atonu e leʻi tausia lelei oe e ou mātua, ae o le a lē toe matutua. Ona pau lava lea o le filifiliga o le aʻoaʻoina oe lava.
And I would start not with friends, but with attention, thinking and speech. If you are interested in tests — great, find a way to test your attention and solve logic puzzles. If necessary, find exercises for attention, even for children, no one will know anyway. Breaking will be terrible: boring, tedious, and you are “too cool”, yeah. But until you teach yourself at least some kind of composure and patience, nothing else will work either, it will continue to throw from “scary” to “do not care” and vice versa, and life passes.
E tele le malosi, ae aunoa ma se sini e alu i se li'o, attached to nothing. It would be good to find out what you can do well, what abilities did not develop in that talkative chaos in which you drown the alarm. Your oddities are of no interest to anyone, so stop flaunting them, but you really need help. Only you don’t know how to get it, and no one has it. So all hope is in yourself — such as it is.