Mataupu
Times are changing, attitudes towards others and ourselves are changing. But this stereotype about sexuality somehow lives on. It is refuted by our experts — sexologists Alain Eril and Mireille Bonyerbal.
Ua leva ona mauaa i totonu o le sosaiete e sili atu ona lagona e alii le manaʻoga mo feusuaiga, e sili atu le tele o paaga feusuaʻi ma e le o filifili i mafutaga. Ae ui i lea, o alii lava ia ua faʻateleina le fai mai latou te maua le leai o se fesoʻotaʻiga faʻalagona ma se paaga ma le fefaʻasoaaʻi i se mafutaga. O fea o nei manatu e latalata i le mea moni?
“E sili atu le naunau o fafine e faia feusuaʻiga pe a oo ina matutua”
Alain Eriel, psychoanalyst, sexologist
Mai le tulaga o le physiology, ejaculation i aso uma e manaʻomia mo se tamaloa mo le faʻatinoina lelei o le testicles ma le prostate. O nisi gasegase ua fautuaina e urologists e fa'atasi i le aso. E toetoe lava o se taotoga faafomai! I fafine, o faiga e mafua ai le manaʻo e sili atu ona fesoʻotaʻi ma mea e pei o le tau, le faʻatulagaina, o ana lava mafaufauga.
O le manaʻo o se fafine e faʻaitiitia i le tino ae sili atu i le mafuaaga. O ona manaoga tau feusuaiga o se vaega o lona atinaega patino; i lenei tulaga, o se tamaitai e sili atu ona faatulagaina e tusa ai ma le mataupu faavae o le "avea". O le tagata, i le isi itu, e sili atu ona gauai atu i le tauvaga, i le tauvaga, o le manao ia "maua" e manumalo ia te ia.
"Mo se tamaloa, feusuaiga o se auala e fai atu ai" Ou te alofa ia te oe "
Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist
E moni lenei faamatalaga, ae e faalagolago tele i le matua. Se'ia o'o i le 35 tausaga, o tamaloloa e a'afia i a'afiaga o hormones fa'afeusuaiga e lofituina ai i latou. Latou te amio e pei o tagata tulimanu. Ona faʻaitiitia lea o le maualuga o le testosterone.
O tamaitai talavou e itiiti ifo i lalo o le fa'atonuga; faatasi ai ma le amataga o le matua, pe a mou atu faasaina i totonu ma tapu, e sili atu ona latou naunau e fai feusuaiga.
Nevertheless, if a woman has found her love, then at any period of her life it is easier for her to do without sex than for a man. For a man who is often stingy with words, sex becomes a way to say «I love you.»